I was a Happy-go-lucky freshly married fun chic in her early 20s... that continued into late 20s...until we decided we were ready for a family... Enter kids.

BLINK...

I was approaching 40.. 

Yes, happily married with 2 pre-teen girls, working part time in a job that was not fulfilling. I was just going through the motions helping others get ALL that they wanted. I always questioned whether I could do anything else... I felt stuck.

What I truly wanted, more than anything was to be a BETTER Mum, A BETTER Wife.

According to hubby life was pretty good the way it was.. most of the time (when he didn't feel like he needed to extract my feelings when we weren't seeing eye to eye.)
My kids thought life was great.. as they didn't know anything else.

But lying awake at night thinking ALL the things.. 

~Things on my to do list
~Re-playing previous conversations
~Questioning decisions I had made
~how to juggle kids after school sports
~organising soccer teams/parkrun events
~school meetings to attend
~chores at home (the ones that stay on the list as you never really do them... but they are there.. just in case!)...

And that was without all of the re-living work dramas....

My kids are pretty easy BUT I would do most things for them...

I am a fixer of problems at work, solving problems is my middle name. I was pretty good at it really... But why wasn't it enough...

When did I realise that I had traded fun for safe/comfortable/easy?

When I had no energy to give my little people at home as I was stuck in autopilot mode of helping others get what they want... as I believed that if I helped enough other people get what they want... I would get what I wanted... This only left me feeling exhausted...

So, just before my 40th, I decided it was time to get Comfortable with being Uncomfortable... Maybe that would increase the fun. I just didn't feel like I was a fun person anymore.

In order to have fun, it felt so hard.. 

Come join me for High Tea at Greendays, where you will learn HOW I now say YES to ME, YES to FUN, YES to my family.
I have healthy boundaries. I respect myself now and demand respect from others by standing up for myself.

At the event, you will LEARN HOW I saved my marriage!

If you are a Mumma that is frustrated by what you see your kids do.. who is AWARE you have helped create these monsters.. AND you are READY TO OWN the Responsibility for your contribution to your frustration and want to learn my LIFE HACK on HOW to be a BETTER Mum and BETTER Wife and Find the FUN in Life.....